Yet I havent gone there since PickupArtistEvents popped up, so things may have changed. You read that right. A student got a bad bootcamp, then got chocked for it.
And he runs an NYC lair. I am now intrigued to see what kind of shit show they run. In bootcamps a lot depends on your instructor and your relationship with him. I had to do the money bet with the second one he had AA and give him a line to use, then a line and a transition, then 2 more questions … which gave him results after a few rejects.
I asked him why he wanted to come here and he said he wanted to see how I gamed. So I asked my other students if it was ok to do a 20 minute set for him and they agreed. After 2 rejects I got the 20 minute set and I asked my guy to give me feedback. This request finally opened him!!! Some of the coaches might understand the situation, it probably happened in their bootcamps too … but I almost lost his interest for the training … and it could happen to anyone.
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Notify me of new comments via email. Notify me of new posts via email. Error: Please make sure the Twitter account is public. Kid Strangelove. Skip to content. The NYC PUA Lair is not about exclusion, but rather screening, to make sure all of its members are of a positive, agreeable attitude, that not only allows for a productive enjoyable environment for all, but are also the qualities necessary to exceed at this skill set.
The goal is to have all members know all other members personally. It is up to each member as to what their criteria for approval is. Not to mention reactions to criticism and suggestions, since the point of a lair is to help each other.
Currently there is no direct application process. We simply find people through the local community and, should we see the qualities we look for in them, ask if they are interested in this type of group. That being said, we do try to frequently have our more experienced members help newer and intermediate members advance their progress in whatever way we can. The NYC PUA Lair is not about exclusion, but rather screening, to make sure all of its members are of a positive, agreeable attitude, that not only allows for a productive enjoyable environment for all, but are also the qualities necessary to exceed at this skill set.
The goal is to have all members know all other members personally. It is up to each member as to what their criteria for approval is. Not to mention reactions to criticism and suggestions, since the point of a lair is to help each other. Currently there is no direct application process. We simply find people through the local community and, should we see the qualities we look for in them, ask if they are interested in this type of group. Most of us are active on other more public lair forums as well.
We just felt the need for a more directly personal group that could meet more frequently. As such we believe we have mutual interests and should not in any way be considered a slight to the already established lairs of New York City, for which we have the utmost respect.
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